Sex Is Fun

Photo by Daniel Smith

What's so amazing about sex? It's so hard to put your finger (excuse the pun) on one thing that's amazing. It feels good, both physically and mentally (hopefully). But above all it's fun.

I have had sex before. I've had serious sex, I've had make up sex, I've had drunken sex, I've had sex with friends because we thought we should "just get it out of the way". I've had fun sex in my life, but not like my most recent experience.

I mean fun as in comfortable, as in sensual and silly at the same time. Laughing about almost falling off the bed one minute and then lost in the moans of ecstasy the next. Different bouts of dirty talk, both playful and sinful, mixed with random exclamations of "Oh My God" and "Yes, More" etc... I hope people have lots of sex this way. Is it all so serious all the time? Do you, my zen readers, have fun sex?

I think serious sexual encounters are amazing and important and there is a connection that is being explored in that instance. But the fun, the playful sex is just great. It made me feel so alive. It was tiring in a different way. Physically it was exhausting as any good sex should be. Mentally though, it was invigorating, to see her there in the soft light of our room, moaning, giggling, looking at me with those eyes of hers.

It was not a night of "fuck me" and "harder", it was a night of laughter and ecstasy, of showers and rainstorms and Wet, in Cherry, Fresh Mango and Tropical Fruit, and the sheets winding up anywhere but the bed. It was fun. I can't wait for the next time. She drives me wonderfully crazy. So until there's more, you know the deal...

Stay zen, stay safe and keep on fuckin'.