Sex Project

Masturbation is cool. The ability to please oneself without the need for another person is somehow liberating. It can also be lonely. I've never thought of masturbation as a replacement for sex. I could have 10 orgasms in one day, all self-created, and still be horny. I'm assuming the same is true in the female population. There is just a difference between masturbation and actual partner-type sex.

My new favorite website for all things sex is The Sex Project. I'm impressed by the amount of information contained there and have been enjoying the read as I systematically devour all of the info on the website.

As I've been perusing the site I've found some things I didn't know (especially about the more intricate parts of the female anatomy, proving once again that women are fucking amazing.) and about multiple male orgasm. I'm intrigued (shouldn't I be?) by the concept.

I'm also intrigued by the Kama Sutra stuff. I've gone through a number of "positions" in my day and I still know there are so many more. That's something about masturbation...No multiple positions really. Not like the butterfly, or missionary or reverse cowgirl.

I've always wanted to find someone to have sex with and explore all the options. I guess you could call them a "fuck buddy" but it's really more than that. It's a partner in crime, a partner in pleasure. Someone to explore the sexual horizons that exist in this hetero world I live in. I think it would be fun to find someone to have my sex project with. Not a relationship, not necessarily. Like someone that you'd go play tennis with, or work out with. Someone to have sex with, to help it be better, to have fun and just enjoy the ability for a man and woman to experience such pleasure while with each other.

There have been times where I've had the opportunity to "play" with more than one person at a time (not many opportunities, but some) and it's been awesome. The "threesome" is an aspect of sex that exists all on it's own. I've loved it, it's been fun and a learning experience with every time. I'll never pass it up, especially if it's with people i care about. But there is something about one-on-one encounters that separate them from the multiple partner experience. Both are amazing. I'm just still looking for that woman who will play with me, challenge me, and in the process enjoy herself immensely.

I realize that's a fantasy. It's a porn movie waiting to happen. I've never thought of it like that though. I've always thought of it like my "sex project". It's been a thought for a long time. Not just when I'm single, not just when I'm horny. I'm a very sexual person. Sexual and curious, even wih my purity score where it is, I'm still curious, still intrigued. I hope that never changes.

So until the one-on-one field research begins, i'll just have to keep on with the reading and the studying. I'll let you know if I come across anything interesting.