Benefits

I'm having a split thought today....so i'll tackle them both.

1. Friends with benefits, aka the fuck-buddy...

What happened to all my fuckbuddies? I remember high school and college (well, the beginnings anyway) and I remember having fuckbuddies. Even me, the non-typical, non-gap wearing male who likes classical music and tends to be a geek, had a fuckbuddy or 2. Now, as I'm settling into singlehood I see no prospects. Did everyone get glasses and realize they didn't find me attractive all at the same time? I think it's harder now, as I'm in my late 20s, for a guy to find a fuckbuddy anyway. What do you think dear readers? Do you have one? Do you want one? Did you lose one? I'm wondering if i'm alone and curious about your experiences.

2. The "clean cut" look...

I'm not talking about the hair on your head. I'm talking about those places we don't share with quite as many people (well, i don't anyway, especially recently). I had, for the longest time, not attempted to shave more than my face. I'm a guy and we don't always think about these things. But recently, on the suggestion of a friend, i decided to experiment.

It's different. I can see how it would be less of a hassle for those partners that descend below our waists with thoughts of pleasure on their minds. I've dated girls from all ends of this spectrum, from the "leave it, it's fine" to the "gone completely" categories. I don't really care one way or the other. I am curious, though, and since the blog is called "Sexual Zen", I thought I'd check on all your stories concerning this subject. So do tell, or hint at, or just send winky smiley faces. Do you like it for others? for yourself? both? neither?...